A Rock-Star Book Birth. How did Heather do it in just 12 months?

by on 18. Jan, 2012 in Books, Make the Quantum Leap, self-realization

Have you ever had a long-cherished dream whose time had finally come, and the quickening it created inside of you told you that you were on the verge of something big? Do you know how to get it outside? (And safely?) These were the questions my rock-star singer friend had exactly twelve months ago.

Heather called me when I was in the bathtub one morning with a unique request. “I need your services as a midwife,” she said. “Are you pregnant?!” I squealed, nearly dropping the phone in the water.  “Yes – with a book,” Heather moaned. “It’s been begging me to write it for the last four years.” “I know!” I hollered. “Is it birth time, Mama?!”

“I can feel that I’m in the final stretch, but…” She cut herself short. I focused all of my energy and attention on her, and pressed gently, “What’s the ‘but,’ honey?” Heather exhaled, and began to confide. ‘I’m nervous about making big changes. Will my family and friends support my new career path? What if I fail, and everyone says, ‘Told you so!’? And if I do succeed, will it all be taken away someday because I’m leaping too high for a mere mortal?”

“Heather,” I asked calmly, “what is at stake if you don’t leap now?” I had recognized the vulnerability in Heather’s voice immediately; it reminded me of the time just before I took my own huge leap years ago to become who I am today. And although my journey along the road to success recently found me featured in a fantastic bestseller sequel that chronicled the habits of highly successful women, I once knew well the pain of unrealized dreams.

Heather is one of the most courageous women I’ve ever known: she is fully capable of admitting the truth to herself, and then moving beyond it. “If I don’t leap, I’m going to start eating crazy again, get fat, depressed and worry my parents about my health, and totally ruin my new relationship,” she confessed. “And most importantly, I’ll give up on my soul and the song she was born to sing. And that would be suicide.” Fear was singing its song. Time to change the station.

“So what do you want instead?” I asked her. “Where would you like your life to be 12 months from now?” I carried Heather’s thoughts forward, toward a new horizon. “In a year?” she responded. “In a year, I’ve published the book, and it’s gotten great reviews; I look and feel the best I ever have; my relationship is fun and nurturing; and I am singing at well-paid gigs.”

“YES! That’s it! Go for it!” I beamed. Heather began to speak quickly. “I’ve been waiting for this moment all my life – I can do this!” she exclaimed. “But I can’t do it alone. You’re like a spirit whisperer. Help me carry this spiritual vision over into physical reality. I need you, to ensure that the book-babe, the Mama, and the new relationship are all healthy and safe throughout the delivery.”

True to her light-hearted humor, she added, “Anyway, my insurance policy doesn’t cover this kind of thing.”  “You’re so funny!” I laughed. “So when do you want to start?” “Today!” she answered with conviction.

That was January 2011. Last month, Heather self-published her book Conscious Girl’s Pocket Guide to Backpacking. And proud, beaming godmother that I am, I endorse it far and wide. It’s a passport-sized, fiercely sexy map to living the spiritual adventure that is your life. I also just got word that Heather is singing at amazing weddings this year. Her angelic voice and transformational power up-level any event. (Know a couple-to-be? Book Heather.)

Book + Wonderful Man + Big Singing Gigs: What helped Heather make the Leap?

Here is the KEY: Everything that exists in the physical world has a spiritual counterpart – an energetic blueprint. Many women report that the energy of their newborn baby made itself known long before they got pregnant, right down to the name and eye color. The same can absolutely be true for your life’s work.

“The future must enter you long before it happens,” wrote poet Rainer Maria Rilke.

Do you want to know the exact questions I asked Heather?
The very ones that helped her recognize what her soul was calling her to do, what was standing in her way – and how to leap over it.

Click here for the Clarity Questionnaire.

You don’t have to do this alone. Like Heather, once you get clear and commit to your dream 100%, you will become unstoppable. Others will notice your unmistakable glow, and those opportunities that were once so hard to find will simply come knocking on your door.

Here is Knock #1: I am taking new clients. You. And for the month of January I am gifting Strategic Clarity sessions ($300 Value). Discover how to make a quantum leap over old blocks + get a feel for what it’s like to work together. There are a few time slots still remaining throughout the end of the month. Is one of them yours? Grab it here.

Darling, your ‘Now’ moment has arrived. (And so has your guide. ;) )
Reveal your Ancient Face with confidence!

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A Fierce Pussycat, Your Intuition and to Leap or Not to Leap

by on 11. Jan, 2012 in Latest News, new beginnings, Personal Growth, self-realization, Uncategorized

Have you ever had something you were excited about, but chose to keep safely to yourself? Here’s something I would never have considered sharing publicly – but times are changing…

I was out running in the hills with a full moon rising, when a fierce bobcat, secretive and rarely seen by humans, revealed himself to me on the trail. Time stopped. Stunning. Stealth. He grabbed me with his stare, and I sensed his power immediately; I knew without a doubt that he could pounce straight  for my jugular if need be. “I come in peace. I come in peace,” I panted, bowing. Without letting me out of his sight, the bobcat walked s-l-o-w-l-y off into the brush.

“You passed the test,” I heard. “What test?” I asked breathlessly as I raced home. I was shaken up, but I wanted an answer, so I googled ‘bobcat totem’ immediately. It said: “Share your intuitive powers. Even more, teach others how to hear and act upon the guidance of their own soul. It will help them through their challenges.”

“What is at stake if I don’t share?” I asked.

“Simple: you’ll get sick. Power unexpressed turns in on you.” That sounded familiar.

Six months ago, my husband badly injured his knee. Our family business – a progressive construction company – was at a crossroads. He could no longer walk and work in the trenches. Something had to shift. I did a divination ceremony in the hills to ‘download’ a new map for our family.

For me, a ‘download’ is an intimate conversation with my Source – the wise ones who reside in the territory of the soul. It’s like phoning God, and the reception is most clear when I dance, run or do anything highly physical. Until now, I’ve been discreet as to when and where I speak of this part of my life.

When I did the ceremony on behalf of my husband, the New Map was crystal clear: we were to partner up together, 50/50. Incorporate, sell the extra trucks, hire a new manager + technicians, and streamline the revenue channels. Big changes. It didn’t seem entirely logical at the time, but being the Jaguar Woman that I am, I chose to follow the guidance I had received.

And? It’s going well! It’s been a great learning experience for us: best friends + lovers + now biz partners. And every step of the way, I – a woman by her man – do my daily energy practices, pray, listen and intuitively guide our spaceship.

Though I spend part of my time busy-bee-managing a corporation, mentoring the private clients of the Jaguar Woman Academy is what feeds my spirit. I cherish the moment we meet: you step through the veil, past the loss, hurt and self-criticism. The walls around your heart soften, and you slip into the territory of the soul. Ahhh. Light. You can breathe like never before. (It’s highly pleasurable!) And often for the first time, from inside yourself, you hear

‘Honey, you are doing everything right. Trust yourself unconditionally.’  
As your great adventure begins, you realize that you will never be alone – or the same – again.

I have heeded the advice of the Bobcat Emperor to open 10 additional spots for private clients.  Three are already taken. If you feel that one of the seven remaining spots is yours, here is what you do:

Book a Laser Beam Clarity session today.
For the month of January I am offering these Clarity sessions complimentary ($300 Value). Here is exactly what will happen once we get on the phone:

1. Get Crystal Clarity: refine your 2012 vision. Far beyond elusive goals. What does your soul summon you toward? What do you really want, but fear can’t possibly come true? Dive IN and discover the hidden pearls that are yours and ready for the taking.

2. Bust the self-perpetuated myth of ‘I don’t have it in me.’ Together we identify the obstacles that lurk in your shadows, and devise a New Map of action: Leap. What baggage are you carrying that no longer serves you? It’s time to release it.  What is at stake if you don’t leap? Break the chain. Upgrade your self-worth. Become unstoppable. You – yes, you.

3. Get a feel for what it’s like to work together long term. Ask burning questions. Get heart-to-heart answers. Both you and I want to have that gut feeling: “Yes, she gets me!” And be sure to ask for special pricing offered to candidates only at a Clarity session.

I am 100% IN.

You?

Just leap. 2012 is your year! (You already know it.)

Final wisdom from the Bobcat Emperor: “Even if there is no logical reason, trust what your inner voice is saying.”  Honey, if my story is your Yes, grab your session here.

With fierce love and commitment,

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Five Little Known Secrets to Soften Your Heart and Step Into the New Year Light on Your Feet

by on 21. Dec, 2011 in gratitude, happiness, love, new beginnings, passion, Personal Growth, self love, Uncategorized

Happy Holy days, my wonderful readers!

I love this time of the year. I go into my Winter Womb to reflect:
write + pray + watch movies + make out in candle light.  Heaven.

Your official permission to blow off your to-do list and dissolve into the moonlight is here: Winter Solstice, December 21, 22 and 23. Twelve years ago I had this vision on a Winter Solstice:

A mystical woman stands at the top of a staircase. Cloaked in a flowing, transparent blue cape, she summons me up. ‘What is your name?’ I ask. ‘Sofia,’ she replies. Climbing white marble steps suspended in the air – stars spilled all over Sofia’s blue cloak – I stand at the gateway beside her. “Open the door,” she says. I do.

The next moment, we are floating on our backs in a still, quiet lake. But it has no earth-dirt to hold it – just water, suspended, floating through the cosmos. Sparkly blackness all around.

I reach out and touch a star.

Speaking of stars…drum roll, please!

The winners of The 12 Secrets of Highly Successful Women book contest are:

Tessa Alburn
Christy Fitzpatrick
Robin Michas
Claudia Tapia
Deborah Wilder

Look in the mail for your autographed copy + a little surprise from Olga. ;)

Little-Known Secrets for Setting Your New Year Intentions*
*(and actually receiving what it is that you want!)

Let yourself rest in these weeks; the Moonlight will protect you while you sleep. Allow 2011 fade into memory, its praises and blames, its gains and losses – especially the grievances you hold against yourself. It is time to release the criticism and shame with which you beat yourself up.

Let yourself loose. Let it all be washed over you. Breathe again. Forgive yourself.
Your 2012 resolutions will bounce right off if you’ve armored yourself in a hard shield of grievances. Let it all go. You must soften to receive the new and marvelous.

Five Ways to Soften Your Heart and Receive in Style:

  1. Make a list of what you’re grateful for.
  2. Let yourself cry in reverence for the one more day that you (and your loved ones) get to live.
  3. Howl at the moon when you feel angry, hurt and not at all grateful.
  4. Scream in your car in a remote corner of a large parking lot.
  5. Listen to So Much Magnificence by Miten.

Release the burdens of the year past so that you may step into the New Year light on your feet. And take soul flight.  Pay those you owe. Redeem those who owe you. Forgive yourself for all judgments you hold against yourself.

You are a precious child of God.
You cannot make a permanent mistake in an impermanent world. (In other words: you don’t have the power to F- it up!)

Now go party! And dream big dreams!
Happy Holy Days!

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What’s the Foundation of a H O T Relationship? My Interview With Bestselling Author Gail McMeekin

by on 09. Dec, 2011 in Books, happiness, love, marriage, monogamy, new beginnings, Personal Growth, relationships, Uncategorized

Last week I shared my big news about being featured in the bestseller sequel The Twelve Secrets of Highly Successful Women. Am I still glowing with excitement? Of course I am! Unexpected fame is such a juicy opportunity to share my passion, creativity and joy!

Besides getting to share the spotlight with the very women I myself admire (Lisa Sasevich, Ali Brown, Victoria Moran and and JJ Virgin, just to name a few), this week I had the opportunity to interview author Gail McMeekin herself!

It was a tremendous honor to be interviewed by her about my own personal road to success for the book. I naturally was so excited to turn the tables and get her insight on core issues that affect all relationships.

 

My Interview With Bestselling Author Gail McMeekin

 1. Gail, what have you noticed is the biggest challenge for women in being a type-A go-getter on the one hand, but then flipping the switch to being receptive, trusting and feminine in the bedroom?

While you can’t beat spontaneity in the bedroom, changing gears is often too hard unless you make a plan, strange as that sounds. Women need time to unplug, get in the mood, and spend quality time with their partner. We also know that having our partner do something special for us can be an aphrodisiac. It can even be something as simple as unloading the dishwasher, picking up your dry-cleaning, taking the kids so you can have some quiet time, or massaging your feet.

In my own life and in the lives of clients, date nights really do work. You clear the decks and go out together and have some fun, break some patterns and get out of ruts, and remember why you are a couple! And when you go out, don’t sit at a restaurant both texting other people on your phones. Romance needs our full attention.

Each of us has our own mix of masculine and feminine styles, and ideally we want to integrate them so that we don’t feel like two different people – aggressive at work, and passive in romance. We want to find our Authentic Self and try to be her in all situations – but we still have to flip a switch from work to love mode  and be conscious about it.

2. How do you personally keep your marriage H O T?

I adore my husband, so that makes it pretty easy to stay connected. We love to travel and find romantic places to stay and re-discover each other. We do have date nights, either at home or out, where we play music we love and hide out from work and other responsibilities – or go out and do something novel that we can both enjoy.

When we moved into our house our bedroom was painted red, which the Feng Shui folks say is an erotic color. We have grown to like the warm feeling in that room and have kept the color. Even though I am a writer/coach and work at home some days in my PJ’s or sweats, I make a point to put on something attractive in the evening to change the mood from work, to play! We also love to take walks and hold hands when walking and sleeping.

3. When a successful woman thinks about having an intimate relationship with a significant other, what is a healthy way to be together around money?

As you know, couples fight a lot about money, so you need to have a plan. Some couples are fine pooling all of their money together, and some are not. It often depends on whether the couple has complementary money styles. With second marriages and lots of business assets, some women are asking for pre-nups, which may make sense. Another model that works is having each partner keep their own bank accounts, and then have a joint account that they both contribute to for paying bills, taxes, home repairs, etc. That way, each person has their own money to spend as they wish. But it is important to have conversations about retirement savings, long-term care insurance, children, etc., so that you have a joint plan for the future that you both contribute to.

Another alternative is for couples to pool their money for the most part, but each keep a personal savings account that gets funded regularly for special things, like spa treatments, fancy shoes, sporting events, art classes, etc. Regardless of which model you choose, there has to be trust as a foundation. When couples have addictions and/or start hiding money info, trouble is brewing. When I did couples counseling for many years, we used to say that there are 6 people in every marital bed – the couple, and both sets of parents. All of those points of view and practices have to be sorted out so that the new couple can work together – despite their differences – and find a happy compromise.

If you have a partner who is a gambler or out of control with money or doesn’t pay bills on time, you need to protect yourself from those credit risks. There can be other issues if the woman makes more or less money than her partner, and another key element is for the stay-at-home parent’s role to be valued and compensated. For couples who get caught in a tangled web around money, getting a money consultation with a CFP and/or therapist is essential if you want to keep the marriage romantic and happy. When the negotiations around planning and money are over, you need to flip the switch again and focus on each other!

 

Gail is currently on a Blog Book Tour. You can find yesterday’s post here on Janet Conner’s website ‘Writing Down Your Soul,’ and tomorrow you’ll be able to find Gail here with empowering author Marilyn Tam.

 

Book Giveaway Contest – Enter to Win!

Want to win a copy of Gail’s newest book The Twelve Secrets of Highly Successful Women? The rules are e-a-s-y! First, ‘Like’ my Facebook fan page. Second, leave a comment below about your secret to maintaining femininity in your own relationship – especially if you’re a Type-A go-getter. Share your wisdom and be entered to win! Five winners will be announced December 21, 2011.

 

 

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How My Love Triangle with Ben and Jerry Got Busted + Big News!

by on 02. Dec, 2011 in Books, E-zine Archive, gratitude, happiness, Latest News, love, Make the Quantum Leap, new beginnings, Spirituality

Today I am feeling giddy, famous, and turned ON! You know why?

I am featured in bestselling author Gail McMeekin’s newest book,

The Twelve Secrets of Highly Successful Women.

I am often asked about my personal victories and failures along the road to success.
My training as an Olympic gymnast shaped me to be persistent, determined and resilient to the nth degree -all good things. But that same background made me extremely wound up, chronically exhausted and often lonely – as in, years of no one but Ben and Jerry in the bedroom. (Frisky, yes, but in an ironic way!) Clients and colleagues ask me:

 

“How in the world did you get from there, to here?”

Years after choosing not to get back on the bus and return to Ukraine, I boarded a dilapidated Greyhound and rode across country to Boulder, Colorado. I was on my way to attend Naropa University – a college founded by a renowned Tibetan monk. The experience stretched my mind and my heart immeasurably. I moved from a life of go, go, go to allowing, receiving and asking for help.

What a reality flip-flop!

Fast forward to 2010: I walked away from my booming Raw Food consulting biz of three years to answer my calling to write a book and speak on the stage. (My love triangle with Ben and Jerry was officially busted when my Hot Monogamy Manifesto came on the scene!) It was at a seminar for speakers that year that I met bestselling author Gail McMeekin. She was impressed by the fact that I had taken bold risks in my personal life to become who I am today by starting over from scratch – multiple times!

She asked if she could feature me in her upcoming sequel, The Twelve Secrets of Highly Successful Women. I was hugely excited and honored – and of course, said Yes.

And here we are. One pivotal decision (to not get back on the bus) has led me on an adventure filled with public speaking, business creativity, passion, pure love – and now the glamour of being featured in the sequel to an empowering bestseller!

What is the ‘bus’ that you are choosing not to get back on?

What will you do with your passion and creativity -make movies, make love in exotic places, write your own bestseller, raise babies?

When will you take your very first step? Today? Now?

Let loose the Jaguar Woman of Passion within you!

P.S. What does the bestselling author SARK (Succulent Wild Woman) have to say about the book?

“The Twelve Secrets of Highly Successful Women gets right to the loving heart of how
women are redefining success and building lives that are wildly creative and creatively
successful! I’ll be recommending this book for many years to come.”

 

Win a copy of the book, autographed by yours truly! Read how here.

 

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Edible Panties + The Vital Ingredient You May Be Forgetting This Thanksgiving

by on 23. Nov, 2011 in gratitude, happiness, Latest News, love, marriage, passion, relationships, self love, Spirituality, Uncategorized

Have you ever turned onto the wrong street – a dark, quiet place you’ve never been – and brushed up against the unknown?

That unexplainable, exquisite spark from which all songs are sung, to you: Thank You! You are the compass inside of me. You brought me to this country, this unknown: coastal California.

Thank you to all those who walked these cliffs before me. Your song seeps into my skin when I swim near the Golden Gate bridge each Friday. And it doesn’t matter if you had skin of red, yellow or white, or who was established here first. We are all indigenous to this planet.

e ART h, Thank You for all that you are! I feel you in every stone and every leaf of every tree that you may have ever grown. I feel you – you, who dances as many faces of many men, great legends, peak orgasmic experiences that defy precise definition.

Thank You, plants and animals. You feed me, you shape me, you enliven me. Thank You, banks and airlines and Skype, for providing me access to my family in Ukraine…laughing, eating watermelon on the veranda, being free.

Thank You, husband. I feel your love like a pink calla lily, wet with the morning dew. You wipe away my false face. You open me up. You see me.

Thank You, words and stories, for you sing me electric. My reader, you – possible geographical longitudes away – you scan your Inbox, and through words we sync and connect. It evokes a sense of nudity, at times –  an occasional “Should I be reading this?”

Yes! Yes! Yes.

Thank You for reading. Thank you for embracing me into your world; for allowing me to whisper to your soul; for trusting me with your questions. Thank You for letting me be your guide to the next level.

You and I: supernovas, blazing through the cosmos. Intersecting. Dancing with humor. Licking pumpkin pie crumble from our fingers. All of it!

Thank You for being a part of my community. You bring out the brilliance in me.

Happy Holidays! May this time be filled with joy, laughter, and meaningful connections for you and your family.

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P.S. Have you ever considered incorporating edible flowers into your Thanksgiving meal? Pansies…and while we’re at it, perhaps even edible panties! Why not – it’s a long weekend, isn’t it?! ;) Make it fun and adventurous in exactly the way that feels good to you. While you’re fantasizing about what that might be, come say ‘Hi’ on my Facebook fan page and get ideas.If you haven’t already, ‘Like’ the page first.

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Hot Monogamy Part II: Three Totally Avoidable Mistakes You’re Probably Making

by on 01. Nov, 2011 in commitment, love, marriage, monogamy, new beginnings, relationships, Relationships & Love, sex, Uncategorized

Have you ever had a revealing conversation that changed your entire perspective? I recently had one with a friend of mine who is also a client. She said:

“More than anything I want a solid and sexy relationship with my man. But with all of the stimulation coming at us as fast as it does, how do we stay connected and real – from money, to sexual desires? My last relationship fell apart because I couldn’t figure this out, and I am an intelligent, successful woman. How do I make it better this time? Give me total honesty.”

Committed relationship – monogamy –  is a beautiful thing,  but it’s fair to ask: Is love enough? If you find that you’ve drifted apart as a couple, should you accept your relationship “as is” and simply settle? If things get stale, do you move on and see other people?

Newsflash: Monogamy can absolutely be H O T !

It isn’t inevitable that you and your man eventually devolve into roommates, or get stuck in a mother-and-son dance. (Sure, either scenario qualifies as monogamy, but who wants it that way?!)  Here is the answer that I gave to my friend:

Darling, no man wants to have sex with his mother. Stop being one.

Here is why your last relationship didn’t make it through the ring of fire – and what you can expect  in this one if you don’t change:

1. His hunter-warrior instinct will grow dull from simple under-use, and you will end up saddled with all of the decision-making responsibilities.

2. You will lose your innocence and sense of enchantment with one another, and hide instead behind the shell of a “hard-working woman.” Not surprisingly, he will seek soft, feminine enchantment elsewhere.

3. Your efforts to guide, help or “fix” him will leave you feeling drained and disappointed. Now you yourself won’t even have the hots for him!

Ask yourself which is more important: keeping everything stable and “as is,”   or enjoying tender connection?

Start by handing the Responsibility Torch back to your man. As intelligent and capable as you are, allow him to make the decisions: where to make the reservations for your upcoming date night, the financial particulars of your next tropical vacation together – it’s his call.

Remember, too, that he isn’t a bird with a broken wing that needs fixing – he is a man that you respect and admire. And for Pete’s sake! Reveal the sweet, enchanted princess inside of you.

When you look up to your man with adoration and respect, he will grow confident and capable – and it is a confident, capable man who showers his woman with gifts, love and affection.*

*Provided that you are able to receive his love, that is. Think of your self as a vibrant, pink calla lily, open and ready to welcome in the bumble bee…or should I say “horny toad?!”

 

Go and create your own signature Hot Monogamy (Part I). Live a little!

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P.S.  It’s always a pleasure to be a trusted guide on your journey.  If you are a woman who can magnetize any man, but can’t seem to keep him, there is a root cause – and a root solution. Call me  so we can discuss how you can break the cycle and create the tender, loving relationship you’ve been longing for.

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Hot Monogamy

by on 24. Oct, 2011 in desire, happiness, love, monogamy, relationships, Relationships & Love, respect, sex

My husband and I are basking in the afterglow of our first radio interview together.

Vladi and Olga Aura

Vladi makes everything so fun. Doing radio shows together is a new favorite! Our skillful and fantastic host Betty Louise had some pointed questions for us about Hot Monogamy, including:

  • The role of beauty and sexuality in a healthy relationship.
  • Respect and regard for sexual desires outside of marriage, and how one handles them.
  • How we developed a solid sense of safety between us.
  • Who chose whom – and how did we *know?*

The answers came to me with ease, and from my native state of openness I shared…

listen to the full interview here

Sexual desires are natural and primal: wolves, dolphins and certainly human men and women have them. (Unless such desires are suppressed, in which case one ends up with a slew of undesirable health issues.)

It is important that you respect, regard and revere your individual sexual expressions. It’s healthy!

When you and your man are intertwined in a warm, safe embrace, call forth the courage to ask, “What is your secret fantasy?”

No matter how threatening it may initially feel to learn his true, uninhibited desires, listen with an objective mind. Your genuine curiosity and willingness to discover the unknown will ultimately lead you to a better awareness about yourself. Where have you been tightly wound? Might this be the opportunity for the sweet flower to blossom?
It’s all about you, honey cakes! And since only you can sense the potency within you, ask yourself this most important question:

Are you living up to your full capacity? Do you want more out of your life than the 30% or 60% that you’ve been experiencing?

A woman is the creative force of the Universe. Create and shape your relationship in the enchanting, signature ways that only you can.

Listen to the male side of the story, and learn what it is that magnetizes him to you – and only you.

Celebrate your willingness, persistence and courage to love in this world!
Surround yourself with people who share your core values.

If you like this post ‘Like’ it at the top of the page. And Hot Monogamy is to be continued…

 

P.S. If you have a show, an event, or a cause, invite us to speak and spark the fire.
Shoot me an email. Entertainment + Value. Intention + Intimacy.  Metamorphosis.

 

 

 

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My Hot Pink Nails Vacation + I Have a Dream

by on 13. Oct, 2011 in happiness, love, new beginnings, passion, Personal Growth, self love, self-realization

Guess where I’ve been playing hooky for the last month?
The Black Sea!

At a spa appointment booked for just after my arrival, the manicurist asked, “Do you want hot pink nails?” My response? “If not on vacation, then when? Let’s do it!”
And so the adventure began.

What is your Hot Pink Nails desire? Something that you secretly want but haven’t yet given yourself? A wedding, a “babe,” a private art show, a trip to Bali?

While at the beach resort, my close girlfriend and I relaxed and took a walk in the sun. We were vibrant, sexy ladies, and thus naturally attracted the eyes of dark, tanned, handsome gentlemen. (Did you know that European men wear form-fitting speedos? No boxers at this resort!)  Watch a sassy video below.

Although we were approached again and again with invitations to “swim together,” we provided our standard, smooth reply: “Our husbands wouldn’t appreciate it, but thank you. Enjoy your swim.” And here is the core truth that surfaced during our stay: no matter how sophisticated we iPad-carrying, Twitter-posting humans believe that we have become, nothing primal has changed in our millions years of evolution.

We still pulsate by the laws of the jungle, a place where the male cat pursues the female cat with the most energetic potency. Because only such a female gives him the opportunity of self-realization.

And the more charged the pursuit, the stronger the male becomes. The female who gives herself away for free loses value in the eyes of the pursuer. And thus I realized:

Value yourself, and the whole world will value you, too!
Value your Self.

So what is at stake if you do not begin to value yourself – if you do not make the leap from who you are now, to who you are becoming?
You may lose love, gain weight, spiral into an illness, lose your job, or let your children down; you may let your life-long dream simply die.

I have a dream that the innocence, joy and passion of women
can be released freely, with vibrant, flying colors.

I believe that men and women can share sweet, honest intimacy together:
dancing, laughing, loving and creating together.

I believe that the Universe is a pure, unpackaged, orgasmic impulse creating
itself into a myriad of weddings, babies, prime shows and bestsellers.
It’s all here for the taking.

But it’s your level of self-value that determines if you choose to sit it out or dance.

This is why I created the Jaguar Woman Academy.
Master your energetic potency, and you heighten your capacity for
passion + intimacy + prosperity.
All ancient ceremonies and technologies are tested – and proven to work.

Last year’s Jaguar Woman graduates are a testament to the power of the course:
a love story to live for, new radio and TV show opportunities, income increases of 70%, a book published, and sexy slim-down makeovers.

It’s all so supremely awesome! I am literally squealing with delight.

So…as I return to San Francisco from my adventure in The Black Sea, I am opening the doors to the Jaguar Woman Academy 2012:  Special Priority List

If you have been wanting to work with me, this is the time, honey!
Ten spots are now open – two were snatched before I could even write this letter.

To get on the priority list, simply email me (your email to me can be blank or write whatever you like).

I will personally reply with the details.

With great Passion and Joy,

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P.P.S. Want more sexy adventure tales? Follow me deep into the jungle of Kauaii to be swept away by the rapture of a 1800 feet waterfall.

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The Legend of Two Lovers. Olympics, Love, Loss and Dreams come true!

by on 30. Jun, 2011 in happiness, love, new beginnings, Personal Growth, self-realization, Spirituality

Have you ever had a dream that seemed too big to come true?

Gather round, friends. This is the story of a brave little gymnast, her leap of faith and one very, very effective dose of modern enchantment.

Once upon a time, in the former Soviet Union, there lived a wee, blonde Olga-child. She had been trained as a gymnast since the tender age of five, leaping on command and following every instruction. One night, she hid a note under her mattress that read ‘I will become a champion. I will live in America. I will speak English.’

In 1994, 14 year old Olga came to the U.S. on a tour before the Atlanta Olympics.

When it was time to return to the Soviet Union, she didn’t get back on the bus.

Making a life in America wasn’t easy. She worked hard to put herself through school but eventually she was notified that she’d be deported in three months if she didn’t get married and obtained a Green Card. How’s that for pressure?!

Olga decided to focus her Olympic-caliber concentration and precision into a Union Ceremony to meet her future husband. She took a leap of faith and that night, Arnold Schwarzenegger himself appeared  in her dream — waving and full of gap-toothed smiles. Obviously, this meant her future husband lived in California, right?!

Olga’s bus pulled into San Francisco’s Union Square at midnight, under a full moon.
And there, standing under a street lamp was the most gorgeous man Olga had ever seen.

And when he opened that gorgeous mouth, you know what came spilling out? The language of her home!

Olga grabbed this handsome Russian’s hands and they twirled together under the stars laughing like children. She told him ‘You are the reason why I didn’t get back on that bus.’ They spent that night together and haven’t been apart ever since.

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My leap of faith was using a bit of ancient ceremony power to make my dream real. I will tell you all about it in a free strategy session. Be prepared for:

Ancient ceremony + Dancing + Sisterhood = Accelerated Results!

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Now, have you ever taken a leap of faith — either in your personal or professional life? What was your secret mojo? Share your wisdom in the comments below. Can’t wait to hear :)

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