Transform Your Body and Your Relationships

Rewriting the Story of Disempowerment

Written by Olga Aura

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Do you struggle with extra weight even though you eat right and exercise?
Do you take care of everyone in your family, but feel underappreciated?
Do you always feel challenged by a mean boss or parent or spouse?

The Biggest Secret

to resolving your problem is to realize you have been stuck inside a story.  Your particular story of betrayal, abandonment and trauma may differ from that of your neighbor.  But here is what is the same for everyone.

There are three main characters in the story for which we all audition:

The Victim
The Persecutor
The Rescuer

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The Victim

Let’s take a classic story every reader could relate to.  First scene: enters a woman with a low self esteem. Her name is Mary and she plays the Victim.  The theater of life provides Mary with the perfect costume:  slumped shoulder, bulging belly, pains and aches everywhere, gloomy dark dress. And her monologue is “the world is not a safe place”.

The Persecutor

Then enters Mary’s corporate boss (or husband or father), Peter, who plays the Persecutor.  The Persecutor has the hard job of judging, yelling at, and tearing Mary into shreds.  The most important point to understand is that the Persecutor would be out of a job (cease to exist) if there was not a Victim on trial. (Victims create Persecutors in their live.)

The Rescuer

The third character in the story is Mary’s mother. She calls Mary every day with “valuable suggestions”. The Rescuer is a popular role and many of us audition for it: therapists, healers, environmental activists, care givers.  However every Rescuer MUST have a Victim she can fix. The Victim can NEVER get better in this dynamic.   Mary will not find happiness, the Earth will not heal, your friends and family will not get better if you are attached to rescuing them, they can’t – YOU are in the way.

The Hidden Cause of Being Stuck

As our story unfolds, because Mary’ is not getting better, her mother gets impatient.  She says Mary doesn’t appreciate her.  In fact the mother is outright angry that her efforts did not pay off.  In her anger she becomes the Persecutor leashing out at Mary.

But mom quickly gets a heart attach from all the stress and blames Mary for it.  So now mom is the Victim and Mary is the Perpetrator.  Sure enough as a Perpetrator Mary feels more courageous, she has had enough of being a Victim, so she quits her job. Instead she decides to be an animal activist.  Mary will Rescue helpless animals and take care of her sick mother.

And so the story keeps rolling, you just change costumes from one role to another. Like a hamster running on a wheel inside a cage, 24/7 you are inside a story. And that’s what I call being stuck.

To fulfill your role in the story perfectly you will manifest diseases, relationship breakups, accidents, etc. It is scripted in the role.  You auditioned for it. You got it. Now you live it.

Unless… you get of the wheel.

How to get UnStuck on the Spot:

If I am stuck, like after an argument where I feel Victimized.  Or I am working too hard, trying to Rescue clients, I stop and affirm to myself in a strong voice

I am not a Victim.
I am not a Persecutor.
I am not a Rescuer.

I snap myself out of the story.
And then I forgive myself for temporarily buying into the story to begin with.
I breathe and I shift my mental state on the spot.
Who knows how many accidents, diseases and divorces I have avoided just by doing this.

Of course it has taken me years to become acutely aware of root stories that underlie illness, relationship challenges and career blocks.  If you need laser beam piercing insight on how to turn your challenges into great opportunities, I could be of assistance.

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